Are You Surrounding Yourself With The Right People
Parents often spend an exorbitant amount of time warning their children about bad associates. I was no exception. To this day I can remember how my parents lectured me about the friends I kept, forbid me to visit the homes of certain individuals and carefully monitored my whereabouts. Are you
Being young, I often thought this as overly restrictive and a huge inconvenience. Now, having grown up to see the life that some of these
individuals now lead, I am truly grateful for their insight and guidance. To know about
I strongly encourage you to consider your associates wisely for the following reasons:
• Your associates influence the way you think
• Your associates influence the way you are viewed
How Your Associates Influence the Way You Think
Everyone and I mean everyone you regularly associate with will have some influence on your life. Keep your mind set clear aboutThis is true whether you are conscious of it or not. As humans, we are constantly trying to make sense of this topsy-turvy world by carefully examining the people around us. To know about other you have to be an optiminsit person and have
If you choose to associate with people who are content with doing just the basics of life to get by, this notion can easily seep into your mind and affect how intensely you work towards your goals and
These people will make you question why you push yourself so hard and whether your goals are even achievable. I am sure you will not find this kind of thought motivating at all but always
On the other, what about surrounding yourself with people who are constantly pushing themselves to do better? Think about it this way, if you wanted to grow flowers in your garden, would you fill your garden with poison, stop watering it and hide it away from sunlight? So,
That would not produce the kind of results you are looking for. So why would you surround yourself with people who want to poison your mind so to speak?
These may be well meaning people who genuinely care about you, but they do not understand the fire that burns within you. They have never been as determined to succeed as you are and will never, ever understand what motivates you to keep going. If you get hurt at any situation don’t lose hope beacuse its a fact that
As a result, they hurl pessimistic remarks about your dreams and slowly change the way you feel about achieving your goals. Just you nee dto have faith on
In order to keep yourself motivated, you have to be confident aboutthat your goals are achievable and associates like these will only sow doubts in your mind. Even if these people never mention your goals, the way they live their life will do little to keep you motivated.
Their way of life can either positively or negatively reinforce your desire to reach your goal. Constantly seeing them underachieve or procrastinate will dampen the flames that motivate you to keep going.
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When your close associates achieve their goals, your own goals will become that much more real to you. And the closer your goals are to your heart, the more motivated you will be to achieve them and after that you will feel .
How Your Associates Influence the Way You are Viewed
The world of business that exists today is one that is very closely connected. Your achievements are very closely tied to the achievements of your partners. For that achievements some times you have to
It is virtually impossible for your business to survive in a vacuum. Your reputation is thus one of your biggest assets. Unfortunately, our reputation is not just a product of our own actions, but also the actions of our associates.
If we chose to associate with people who are dishonest or low performers, we too might be viewed in a similar manner. It is only natural to
assume that birds of a feather will flock together. There is always a chance of
Your reputation is your brand and this is what will attract the investors and customers you will need to make your goals a reality. The wrong associates can permanently damage your good reputation. For securing your reputation you have to build your interest that
Associating with the wrong people may very well mean that a great opportunity could easily pass you by.
Believe me when I say, there is a lot of truth in the saying that it is very lonely at the top. Achieving your goals of being the first or the best in your field will be a lot more enjoyable when you are surrounded by people who are happy to see you succeed.
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Associates that refuse to push themselves to do better will easily become jealous of your success and do all they can to demotivate you. To make matters worse, it is usually the people that are dear to our hearts that often are setting us up to fail. But don’t worry if you are sincere with your work then
That is why I strongly encourage you to be cautious with the people you let share your dreams. Choose the kind of friends that will constantly push you to do better and stay motivated. TThese kinds of friends help you in your ups and downs and make your mind clear about
Associating with the right people will also put you in a position to be at the right place at the right time.
Are You Surrounding Yourself With The Right People – Conclusion
Listen, I get it. We all have those special friends that we dearly love and are the life of the party but when it’s all said in done more is said than done. I’m all for a great time but you are the only one that can take charge of your life. You are the only one that can
I hope this article has given you some insight on the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people and putting your goals and dreams first.
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